As a slight control freak, sometimes I tend to try to limit what the kids do and try to do things myself without even thinking. I'm trying to make a conscious effort to stop doing that and let the kids enjoy putting up decorations themselves and remind myself that not everything needs to look perfect {a recent picture of my house will show that it is beyond looking perfect. Hey, I never said I was a neat freak!}. In saying that, I wanted Lil J to feel included so I let him help me decorate the tree {surprisingly, Miss S didn't have any interest in decorating the tree}. I also told him not to touch the ornaments that were already on the tree and he seemed to understand me. He did take interest in one silver bell, though, which he kept taking on and off, on and off.
It was amazing to see the sense of accomplishment in Lil J's face. We're going to do some more decorating tonight and I'll post pictures of the results!!

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